Silk Ropes, Sharp Teeth

What This Is

Something feels off. You can’t name it yet, but you’ve seen the pattern.

A well-liked top who always plays in private. A charismatic mentor whose exes disappear quietly. A whisper in the bathroom. A gut feeling no one wants to validate.

Silk Ropes, Sharp Teeth is a live class about those moments. The ones where harm doesn’t look like harm, until it’s too late.

Led by Lady Grey, this session offers grounded, emotionally intelligent tools for recognising covert abuse and responding with clarity. It’s designed for people who care about power, trust, and the quiet responsibility of keeping each other safe.

To be clear, this is not a crisis response class but it is a wake-up call and a warm invitation to see more clearly, so we can love and lead more bravely.

To be added to the email list for the next talk, please register below:

Thursday 9th October, 6 PM (UK)
Live on Zoom | Free to attend

Course Contents

How abuse hides in “good reputation” and community status

Why some people get protected while others get erased

What ally grooming looks like (and why it works)

How to recognise patterns even when there's no “proof”

What to say when someone confides in you - and what not to

What you'll learn

Who This Is For

This space is for people who’ve seen the red flags and stayed quiet.

For people who’ve watched someone get hurt and didn’t know what to say.

For organisers, Dominants, switches, mentors, friends - anyone who feels the weight of responsibility and wants to carry it well.

Whether you’re new to the scene or woven deep into it, this is for you.

The Next Event

• Event Name: Silk Ropes, Sharp Teeth

• Subtitle: Spotting Covert Abusers in the Kink, Poly, and Alt Scenes

• What It Is: A free, live Zoom gathering designed to help you protect your community from threats who use our language and aesthetics

• When It Happens: Thursday 9th October, 6 PM (UK)

About The Lady Grey

is a mentor, Dominant, and guide through the shadowy corners of power and intimacy. She has been an active leader in the UK kink and polyamory scenes for more than a decade and brings that experience into her work, which blends psychological insight with erotic clarity, helping people lead with both courage and care, especially when it matters most.

Lady Grey is...

Short title

Silk ropes. Sharp teeth. The same things that can hold you, can also cut you. You already know this. Now let’s talk about what to do with that knowing.

Silk Ropes, Sharp Teeth

Thursday 9th October, 18:00 GMT
Live on Zoom | Free to attend

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